Description
REVISED 2026
The book discusses coping with the loss of a baby and providing support for siblings and families during the grieving process.
Support for Grieving Families
This section provides guidance for parents and grandparents on how to support children dealing with the loss of a sibling.
- Be open about sadness and death to help children learn to grieve.
- Answer children's questions simply and honestly, acknowledging uncertainty.
- Use clear language like "died" instead of euphemisms to avoid confusion.
- Offer extra affection and maintain familiar routines to provide comfort.
- Reassure children they are not to blame for the loss.
- Include children in goodbye rituals to help them participate in the grieving process.
- Acknowledge that parents also have the right to grieve and seek support.
The Experience of Loss
This story narrates the emotional journey of a family coping with the loss of a baby.
- The family was excited about the new baby but faced sadness when the baby died.
- The children expressed their feelings of unfairness and disappointment.
- Grandma provided comfort and explained that sometimes things happen without reason.
- The children learned to express their sadness and remember their sibling.
- They found solace in nature, comparing their loss to a flower bud that never bloomed.
Author and Publisher Information
- Marilyn Gryte is a retired maternal-child nurse and counselor with experience in grief education.
- The book is published by Centering Resources, a national publisher focused on grief resources.
- The book aims to support families dealing with the loss of a baby and is available through the publisher's website.
Also available in Spanish