Grief Digest Articles

by John S. Munday and Fran Wohlenhaus-MundayOne of the persons who can be a great help for mourners at any time on their path to healing is the parish nurse. Of course, not every church has a nurse on its staff, but we strongly believe that such a person, whether paid staff or a volunteer, can make a great difference in the whole life of a congregation.One church we visited in February had recently installed a parish nurse. We met her as she was finishing up her certification procedure—required …

I answered the phone, and heard your voice againBut this call was different; I could hear your pain.The words that you spoke haunt me to this day.I thought that I could love you enough to make you want to stay.I tried to encourage you with loving words a mom should say.How could I have ever known you would end your life this way?Your world held everything, or so it seemed to me,But the pain and the hopelessness were all part of your misery.I was sure that you could cope with whatever came your w …

Emotions reflect that you have special needs that require support from both outside yourself and inside yourself. Becoming familiar with the terrain of these emotions and practicing self-care guidelines can and will help you authentically mourn and heal in small doses over time. The important thing to remember is that we honor our emotions when we give attention to them. Following are just a few ideas to help you care for your emotional self during your journey through grief.Reach out and touch. …

you were always telling me rememberKrista Houstouni forget everythingbut youi forget the way i wasand sometimes i forgetthe way i wanted to bebut never your wayto open a heart and howyou told mei could bethe light switchin the dark.sometimes i forgetthe way he tore me downor the way she said i was no oneand other things a person shouldforgetbut i never forgetyou told mei cannever love too muchand you’re warningto trust peoplewhen they show you who they arebelieve themwhen they don’t show upand w …

HOW I COPED WITH DEATHBY PATRICE D. WILKERSONOn April 19, 2015, I celebrated my father’s birthday. He would have been 56 years old, but he passed away six years ago.When he passed, I was filled with so many emotions. I couldn’t understand why this had to happen. Why did God take my best friend away from me? I can remember being at the funeral home with my friends crowded around trying to console me. They kept telling me that God doesn’t make any mistakes and that everything happens for a reason. …